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April 16, 2011

Taking Off!

After more than a year of dreaming and planning and saving, we are leaving tonight for Morocco! It's felt almost unreal up until now that we will finally have our families together again and it's just now sinking in now that we have packed suitcases and plane tickets! I am so thankful to God for this chance to reunite our two families and to enjoy each other and learn about a totally new culture. We'll be spending a lot of time in their home city of Meknes and making visits to nearby towns and then vacationing together in Fez. We have lots of plans for exploring and spending time together.
My sister just reminded me that she hasn't seen Eliza since she was a year and a half old! We've never met L. and they've never met Silas. It's also been almost three years since C. and I have seen each other. It feels like it's time to be together again and we're so grateful for this chance! Please pray for smooth flights, healing from sickness (cough and stomach problems) and great time together!
Love, Candice

April 14, 2011

Soaked

I was part of a ladies group at the retreat that met to talk about issues with third culture kids. It was a really good chance for me to ask questions and learn from people with years of experience raising kids overseas and also adult TCKs. One thing that was emphasized many times was the need to give kids identity, roots, and security because they grow up with the challenge of living outside their home culture and not "belonging" in many ways. Family traditions are one of the ways that we can give that feeling to our kids.
Well this week it was time for an annual tradition- our Song Kran picnic- Claire surprised me by saying this is one of the things that she really looks forward to every year. I think her favorite part is seeing all the grown-ups acting like kids and water fighting! Claire and Eliza also love to ride on Tom's motorcycle and go out with their guns looking for a fight and coming home soaked and covered in powder. :)

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The neighbor kids from across the road came over for an early morning attack!

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Brittany's water gun was my favorite- complete with an umbrella!

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Watch out for this one!

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I forgive him for the ice water down the neck.

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Somehow we always end up in the kiddie pool.

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Neighbor kid drowns Brittany.

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picnic

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And of course, the "Everybody in the Kiddie Pool" annual team picture. Besides the Reach team, we were joined by Chat and Mem (he stopped by because he remembered our party from last year! :)). We missed our team mates Dan (in the States) and Colleen and Efrain and Nixon (who were traveling in Sakon Nakhon).
Happy Thai New Year, everyone!

-C

Retreat for Asia workers

Last week we got to spend some time in Chiang Mai and participate in SEAAR for the third time (South East Asia Anabaptist Retreat- a long and not all that accurate name :) ...it includes workers from other parts of Asia too- like China). A big highlight for us, as always, was the chance for our kids to play with other TCKs like them. For our kids, retreats are kind of like Bible School or summer camp- it's a special time for them every year. We adults also had some good input for our marriage (learning to fight), Bible studies from Acts, good worship times in a variety of styles, and also learning about the growth of the Chinese church and how Anabaptist values can apply to the Asian church. It's always good too hang out and reconnect with other workers too.
A few pictures of the kid's activities...
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Claire and Eliza with Teacher Trudi and Juliana (Cambodia) and Jaden (Tibet).

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Water relays with the big kids. The theme of the week was "water of life" so there were lots of water games!

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The kids got to perform a new song they learned in the talent show.

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Silas enjoyed some firsts like getting his face painted and learning his first Bible verse! "Whoever is thirsty, let him come to me and drink."

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Silas had a big time crush on Juliana and followed her around all retreat calling "Junia!"


E Style

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Had to show you an example of Eliza's style. She likes to go around in dress up clothes and lots of necklaces. We love the glasses she got from her Mast grandparents for her upcoming birthday. Eliza's almost six!

April 04, 2011

Growth and Travels

The past few weeks have certainly had their share of stress and problems (see the earlier entries about our visa woes) but we’ve also had the privilege of seeing God at work. In what turned out to be my second of three trips to Laos in March I went with Lan to visit Pon. We spent several days together without much agenda. Lan was tired out after a stretch of working multiple consecutive shifts as a security guard – sometimes working 36 hours straight, so he spent a lot of time sleeping. We also spent a lot of time hanging out in Pon’s room – sometimes talking, sometimes just individually reading the Bible and then asking questions or sharing something that impressed us. I wasn’t sure how much I should prepare in the way of Bible studies for this trip – but I think that the laid back approach worked well. Both Lan and Pon enjoy reading the Bible and it was encouraging to see how they read – looking for practical applications to their lives and remembering the passages that had encouraged them in the past.

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For someone who just began reading the Bible in January, I’m amazed at how much Lan has learned and how he is immediately using what he’s learning to teach his friend, Kaminee. Even before he began reading the Bible Lan had an experience with God. While visiting Pon a year or so ago he read part of a Christian book that Pon had and then, without telling anyone, prayed. After that he felt like someone was watching over his life but he didn’t really know what to do next. So, when Pon had another opportunity to talk to him about God late last year, Lan was ready to listen. I don’t know if even he could point to a time when he became a believer, but he’s now talking very clearly about his faith and what God means to him.

Last night he and Lung Seri came over for supper and then we studied part of Matthew 18 – Jesus instructing us to have faith like a child and the story of the lost sheep. We had a good discussion and Lung Seri shared with us how he sometimes feels like he is between two religions. We encouraged him to not get bogged down in comparing religions and talked about how our faith is not a religion but a relationship with Jesus. Pray for him as he continues to reflect on this. You can also pray that over the next month we would find more time to meet with these friends – and with others who want to study.

We leave tonight for Chiang Mai where we’re attending (and Candice is helping to coordinate) a retreat for Anabaptist workers in this region. We’ll get back to Bangkok Sunday morning, be home for the week of Songkran (the Thai New Year holiday) and then leave on a long-anticipated trip to Morocco to visit family there.

-Tom

Ladies' Man?

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Silas was a popular guy in Vientiane.

At the Laos border

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I like how the exclamation point makes it seem more exciting!