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July 29, 2009

Silas on a Roll

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Silas is growing and changing really quickly right now so we thought we'd give you a little update about what he's up to:
-he's 11 months old!
- he loves to whiz around the driveway in his walker and recently he's started dragging his horse or his stroller along with him. He also loves to touch the motorcycle even thought it's strictly forbidden!
- he's crawling!! Poor guy has a rough terrain around here crawling over tile and he gets so sweaty crawling his arms and legs slide out from under him.
-he's got two bottom teeth and one on the top.
- he's done breast-feeding and transitioning over to sippy cups and whole milk this month
- He loves to show off for a crowd- clapping his hands, and doing a loud fake laugh when people pay attention to him- especially Uncle Seri!
-he has some special friends that he always recognizes and likes to laugh and smile at
- he's getting into trouble more- playing with electric cords, pulling down book, etc! He knows what he's not supposed to do- he'll reach out for something forbidden and then shake his head no,no.
-he loves yanking on Claire's braids and both girls love holding him and giving him his bottle.

-Candice

July 28, 2009

Saturday at the Park

We had a really fun picnic at the park on Saturday afternoon with our team and some Thai friends. It was a really relaxing time- we enjoyed the lake, trees, fresh air, and of course a great picnic of Thai food. Here are a few pictures of our day...
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Silas with Ju (my Thai teacher and friend). Ju is the one who introduced us to this park and took me and Claire kayaking there a few months ago.

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Claire fell in love with this dog and of course had to feed him all the leftover chicken from our picnic. Someday we'll have a yard big enough for her to own a dog. :)

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Just because I love pictures of my two guys!

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Claire found this HUGE toad by the water. He was sitting there very stunned and still, so we figured he may have been just released by some people making merit. Tom said that fishing here is very backward from the States. People were actually bringing buckets to the lake to release fish rather than catch them!

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With so many friends around, Silas is spoiled rotten. Everyone was helping hold him and feed him chicken and fruit and sticky rice. Here he's with his buddies Pon, Chat, and Piak (the group of guys that Tom meets with on Fridays for a coffee shop Bible study).

-Candice


July 27, 2009

Thai school ceremony

Last Friday I was invited to a special ceremony at the school where the REACH team has been teaching English. The students and teachers wanted to thank them and another short-term group for their service over the past number of months. We were all given matching shirts to wear - something that's typical of these kinds of events. It was fun to see the Thai dancing and I was glad to hear how much this team was appreciated by the school. This was where they spent most of their time and their dedication paid off in new relationships and a meaningful contribution to the students.

Here are a few pictures...
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The team with the Thai dancers.

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The school gave all of us a flower garland and a framed Thai decoration.

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Some of the 8th and 9th graders performed a Thai masked play.

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I'm pretty sure that I'll never wear a pinker shirt!

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And finally, a shot of Nong Si playing with the garland and showing off his new top tooth.

-Tom

July 23, 2009

Back from Laos

Thank you for your prayers for our trip. Things really could not have gone any better. We easily got our paperwork and didn't even have to stand in long lines at the embassy this time. We were so thankful for babysitters for our kids (thanks, Reachers!!) and that we had no problems with getting our visas. It was also a enjoyable several days away for Tom and I. We enjoyed the view from the train and a couple of days in the Lao capital, a nice laid back town with French influence (thus we enjoyed the chocolate, cheese and bread!) and visiting wats and markets....

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Tom at Wat Sisaket looking at Buddha images brought in from all over Laos.

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Sticky rice baskets in the morning market.

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Baguette sandwiches which we ate for just about every meal!

Thanks again for your prayers for us. God definately watched over us and we are happy to be back home reunited with the kids.We forgot how big Silas is!
-C

July 22, 2009

At the Park

Some pictures from the "park"- actually a school playground in our neighborhood. The girls like to play on the playground and Tom and I get to play some ping pong (although I'm still not much competition for him!)....

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Jut Ay! (that's Thai for Peek A Boo!)

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Two seconds from falling

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We ran into our friend Dtia on the way, and she hung out with us at the playground.

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-Candice

July 20, 2009

Vientiane, Laos

Tom and I are leaving tonight for a visa run. We will be taking the overnight train (Monday night) to the border and then we'll exit Thailand, cross the border (we have our Lao visas already, so that should be quick) and head straight to the Thai embassy to submit our paperwork. Our hope is to get our visas the following day and return home overnight Wednesday. Please pray that this all goes smoothly so that we can return home quickly to our children. We are leaving the kids with the Reach team and while we fully trust in their competence, we want to get back before our kids drive them crazy! Please pray for safety for the team and the kids and that Silas does okay with our away time. Pray that we are safe as we travel and that there are no glitches with the paper work.
Thanks for praying!
Candice

Silas Meets an Elephant

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In a very exciting moment in Silas's young life, he met his first elephant. After playing at the park on Sunday, we stopped at our favorite noodle shop for supper, and an elephant stopped by. Silas got to feed him a couple sticks of sugar cane...and while he seemed somewhat alarmed by it, he didn't cry. He was very fascinated for sure!

-Candice

July 19, 2009

A Blessing for Dan

Our Regional Director (and friend and teammate! :)), Dan is headed for America and Latin America for a three month home assignment. He will also be speaking at conference in Iowa on Sunday morning, so we wanted to give him a blessing and send off as he goes. Some of our Thai friends (Piak, Pon, and Dtukdaa) joined us and we did a string tying ceremony as a blessing.

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Dtukdaa reads blessings from the scripture.

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Pon explains the string tying and it's meaning and purpose.( String tying is a traditional Thai ceremony that some believers adapt as a blessing).

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Pon (who was baptized by Dan) ties on a string with a prayer of blessing and encouragement for Dan.

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We are sad to see him go for such a long time, especially as we will be headed to America very soon after he returns, but are glad for this chance for him to reconnect and to share what's happening here.

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Silas also got his share of attention as he practiced his crawling (and walking) around the circle.

-Candice

July 16, 2009

Panda Craze

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A little trivia from life in Thailand today. On May 27 this year, a baby panda was born in the Chiang Mai zoo (the offspring of a pandas gifted to Thailand from China). Ever since, Thais have been rather obsessed. The panda cub has been featured almost daily on the front page of the Thai newspaper with reports on her height and weight. There was a big report the first day she opened one eye and another when she opened both! The girl's 2009 Wimbledon champion (a Thai) was photographed petting her. The most recent news is that the zoo is building a snow house for the pandas.

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Our girls are interested in the naming process. It's been narrowed down to four choices and now the public will choose the winner. Eliza's vote is for Kwan Thai (Spirit of Thailand). She will mail this postcard to cast her vote.

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Even Thailand's elephants are getting in on the action. Elephant keepers have made a light-hearted protest about how much more attention the panda is getting than Thailand's famous elephants...and they even went so far as to paint a few elephants as pandas.

-Candice

July 09, 2009

Asanha Bucha Day Part 2

Here are a few more pictures to round out my last blog post. On Tuesday evening Claire and I went back to the temple to see the "wian tian" (candlelight procession) ceremony. Participants take flowers, incense sticks, and candles and walk three times around the building that houses the main Buddha image. This is done to make merit on several of the major holidays.
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-Tom

July 08, 2009

Asanha Bucha Day

As Candice mentioned in a previous post, yesterday was Asanha Bucha day - one of the holy days of Thai Buddhism. It commemorates the day that the Buddha began to teach the Dharma to his first five disciples. This combination (the Buddha, the Dharma, and the community of monks) is known as the "Triple Gems." It's in these three things that Thai Buddhists "take refuge."

I went to a local temple early in the morning to observe the festivities - and there was a lot to see. Crowds of people came to celebrate the holiday by making merit in a variety of ways (see the pictures below). Making merit is a complicated concept that I'm still not sure I fully understand. On one level it could be described as building up good credit towards a future life and eventually, nirvana. The merit that one accumulates is weighed against the bad things they've done and the result determines the comfort and desirability of the next life.

On another level - and one that's probably more important to most people - making merit is a way of gaining protection or blessing for this life. A famous Thai saying is "Good actions bring good results, bad actions bring bad results." It's a simple law of cause and effect. So, making merit will cancel out the bad and ensure a positive future in this life as well as the next.

And on yet another level, these activities - especially on the special holidays - are just a fun way to participate in a communal event that reminds everyone of this culture's deep connection to Buddhism. This religion is integrated into so many aspects of Thai life and is learned and experienced from childhood. I'm sure that going to the temple to make merit feels good and satisfying. It's reassuring and reminds the participants of the ideals that they've been taught for as long as they can remember - and that they want to pass on to their own children. So, they go to the temple and give food to the monks, put gold leaf on the Buddha images, dip wax into a candle mold, release sparrows, listen to chanting, and do many other things for a combination of all of these reasons - to build up good credit, to make this life better, and to feel that connection to the community. At least that's my current evaluation of it. It's a powerful event to witness and it's left me with a lot to think about as we consider what a meaningful relationship with Jesus looks like in this context.

Now, for the pictures...
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Food given to the monks.

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Giving alms to the poor is one way of making merit - and those asking for help were out in force yesterday, counting on the support of the merit-makers. Also notice the person selling caged birds in the background...more about that later.

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After making a donation, people would pour candle wax into these large molds. Candles are traditionally donated to the temples during this holiday.

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People were buying candles, lighting them, and then setting them afloat. This is a form of merit making that doesn't help anyone else - but is a way of doing something that focuses your mind on the Buddha's teaching.

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Releasing animals is another popular way of making merit. These caged sparrows were freed and that kind action to the animals brings merit.

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And many people brought gifts for the monks and the temple. In keeping with the modern times, many people now give florescent light bulbs in lieu of candles.

Last evening I returned to the temple to observe another merit-making activity, the candlelight procession. I'll post some picture of that tomorrow.

-Tom

July 06, 2009

Holidays

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Our team, even the Canadian :) , came over to help us celebrate the 4th last night. We enjoyed American treats like hotdogs (although that's also a favorite Thai treat), potato salad, baked beans, etc. Mmmmm. We always look forward to our monthly English worship time as a team too and the girls think it's great fun to have Sunday school with a Reacher- last night they got to make macaroni tambourines which were a big hit!
Our team is on the smaller side these days. We have our team of six Reachers here for another month. Otherwise, Colleen and Anita are here and attending school for Thai language and hair styling respectively as well as spending a lot of time with Thai friends. Dan is traveling a lot in the next few months- he's currently in Bangladesh (please pray for his time with the believers there) and then heads to America for home assignment and Latin America to meet with the interns that we are hoping can soon return to Thailand.

I also had an interesting experience this weekend helping a Thai friend (Wanna) learn how to bake a few things. She is interested in selling some foreign desserts in her sushi stand. I tried to choose some things (brownies and banana cake that are not too sweet and that I think Thais might like. Most foreign desserts seem very sweet to them.) Although Wanna is an extremely accomplished Thai cook, she doesn't have an oven in her house and has never used measuring cups or baked anything that I could tell! Next week, as a trade, she is going to teach me a few dishes- a shrimp soup and a minced pork dish. I, on the other hand don't have much experience cooking with a mortar and pestle!

This week we have two Buddhist holidays, Asanha Bucha (celebrating the Buddha's first sermon beginning to teach the Dharma) and Khao Phansa (the beginning of Buddhist Lent), so the kids are home from school most of the week. Hopefully we'll soon have some pictures of the festivities to show you....
Candice