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March 31, 2008

It's HOT!

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Bangkok today: 36 degrees and mostly sunny

Signs that the HOT season has arrived......

1)The day is not complete until the girls have been in the kiddie pool at least once, usually twice.

2) Claire cannot resist the temptation of the ice cream truck playing his tune outside our gate. She loves to run out with her 20 baht and buy an orange push-up all by herself.

3)Tom picked two ripe mangos from our front yard the other day! (mango sticky rice is our favorite part of the hot season)

4) Our favorite room in the house is the air conditioned one- our bedroom. Claire and Eliza have moved in with their sleep mats.

5) We've stopped sitting on the furniture...too hot! The tile is better.

6) All the fans in the house are on full blast and we move slowly and drink lots of water.

8) Our trees need constant watering....currently we have 3 mangos, a jackfruit, 2 banana, and som o (a big orange).

9) 36 degrees is a common daytime temperature (96.8 F to you) and 27 degrees at night (80 F).

Enjoy your spring weather for us! :)

-Candice

March 25, 2008

Umbrella or bikini?

During our recent beach vacation we were struck by another cultural difference.

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This is the Thai way of spending a day at the beach - fully clothed, sitting in a group under a cluster of umbrellas with a table full of food.

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At the other end of the modesty and skin-cancer spectrum...the white (mostly European) tourists. We were amazed at the number of elderly, overweight Caucasians who showed off their rolls of burned belly fat. To the Thais these people would be seen as lacking both morals and common sense.

-Tom

March 23, 2008

Easter Eggs in the Banana Tree

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We were really blessed to have some RMM administrators here to celebrate Easter with our team (they'll be here all week). The girls have never heard much "Mennonite singing" before and Eliza was staring open-mouthed in awe as we sang "Low in the Grave He Lay." :) Joe encouraged us to think about in what areas of our life that we need more resurrection power. It was such an encouraging time for us! Of course we all thought about and missed our teammate Sharon a lot (she's in the hospital with a bacterial infection...more about that soon).

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We all gorged on Peeps, chocolate eggs, and jelly beans thanks to RMM office staff. Thanks guys!! The girls loved their stuffed bunnies and chicks too!

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Claire finds an egg that was blending into our banana tree (we're so excited to have two new banana trees in our yard and are having fun watching them grow).

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Eliza got so excited over every egg find and started crying when it was over!

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The girls with their Easter baskets.

I will write more about Sharon in a future entry, but please be in prayer for her. She has been in the hospital since Wednesday and has been on our hearts and minds a lot.

Have a blessed Easter. We miss you and will be thinking about you Rhodeses and Masts!


March 20, 2008

Thai Newspapers II - The apology

Another regular feature in Thai newspapers is a picture of a criminal apologizing to their victim (or family member of the victim). Thai criminals are not afforded much privacy - they are regularly paraded in front of reporters at news conferences and made to sit behind a table full of drugs or guns (if that's what their offense was). But a more positive aspect of the Thai judicial proceedings is the apology. In Thai culture forgiveness is important and the person who has been wronged seems to be quick to forgive when asked in a humble and contrite way. Here are a few examples...

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This was in the news a while ago, and I can't remember all of the details - but the gist of the story is that the man giving the flower bouquet to the police officer was guilty of insulting (and possible striking) the officer in front of a crowd of witnesses.

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This lady is a very famous Thai singer (Tata Young). The man on the left tried to extort money from her by threatening to kill her. As soon as he was arrested they arranged this meeting where he apologized and she accepted his apology.

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This was in the paper yesterday. These two men were part of a drug dealing gang. They shot and killed a police officer. After they turned themselves into the police (from what I could gather they were on the run for a day or so, but feared for their safety) they were brought before the parents of the man they killed and knelt before them to ask their forgiveness. The mother was quoted in the paper as saying that she didn't initially want to forgive them, but after she thought about sin, goodness, and punishment she forgave in order to compensate for sins that she may have accumulated (my apologies to this lady if I'm mis-translating her sentiments).

I'm sure that those doing both the apologizing and forgiving often have mixed feelings and motives - but it's been impressive to me to see the way in which those involved model humility, repentance and forgiveness.

-Tom

March 16, 2008

Beach Pictures

We got home from the beach yesterday afternoon- just a little too soon for most of us! We all agreed that we could have used a day or two more of vacation! Here are a few pictures of some of our favorite parts.....

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One of Claire's favorite times at the beach was flying these airplane kites- we bought a couple due to their tendency to break quickly!

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Another favorite activity that took hours every day was digging in the sand.

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Claire had fun riding a horse on the beach. Eliza also rode for a few minutes and then got scared, but Claire was a real cowgirl! Here she is with Lucky.

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We enjoyed the beautiful scenery of Hua Hin.

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Beach Baby One.

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Beach Baby Two.

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In the evenings we had fun eating Italian food, Thai seafood, walking around the night market, etc. On our last night (here) we visited a fishing pier and watched the fisherman unloading their catch. We had a wonderful French dinner at a place overlooking the ocean (crab- yum) and then walked home on the beach. We decided that expensive French food was wasted on the girls, so we stopped at McDonalds for a hamburger for them. :)

Anyway, it was a really fun and refreshing time for all of us. The girls really enjoyed the beach as well as the pool at our hotel. Now, we're back home. Today we had another team/Thai friends celebration Sunday.
-Candice

March 11, 2008

Thai Newspapers

One of the ways in which I am still (slowly) trying to improve my Thai language skills is by reading newspapers. Thailand has an amazing number of newspapers (including two national English language papers that I read when I want to really comprehend). But the Thai language papers are fascinating for a variety of reasons - one of which is their sensational coverage of crime. I've been particularly intrigued by one apsect of the Thai judicial proceedings - the crime reenactment. I'm not aware that this practice is used much in the States - one reason being that most people seem to plead innocent (and agreeing to act out the crime would look rather incriminating in the eyes of a judge or jury). It seems to me that people accused of crime here are more likely to plead guilty - and as part of that they show the investigators how they committed the crime.

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This man is demonstrating how he disposed of a body.

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This was a recent crime - the man shown here killed eight people who had been partying loudly and disturbing his sleep over a period of several months. The newspaper mentioned that staging this reenactment required the deployment of 300 police officers to keep angry relatives from attacking him.

In less grim news, our family is taking the next few days off and heading to the beach. The hot season seems to be upon us and we're going to get away while we can. Over the next two months we'll be receiving five new interns from Latin America and helping to host several groups of visitors.

-Tom

March 10, 2008

Little Show-Offs

When we had our team seminar in the city last week, we took a lunch break at a hotel with a Thai lunch buffet. The girls (as usual) got a lot of extra attention from three waiters who brought them high chairs, wiped their mouths, gave them extra napkins, asked them lots of questions, and brought them special dishes of fruit and ice cream. Well, inevitably, they ended up taking the girls off for pictures and before we knew it, both girls were up on stage with the live entertainment, dancing away! We didn't realize we were raising two little show-offs...but here is part of their "performance." (thanks for the video, Sharon). We're not sure where Eliza learned her dance moves.


March 07, 2008

Friday, March 7

It's been a busy week since we've been back from our trip to Isaan and it's been really good to be home! On Wednesday we really enjoyed an all day seminar with our team in a hotel in Bangkok. We studied together about Jesus's example of working with a few to reach many. It inspired us to keep looking for those seekers in our lives who God wants reach.

I just wanted to show you another picture of my awesome students! Last week, we finished up our second module together and I'm really looking forward to teaching the next one, starting March 20. I really love these guys and we all bonded a lot during this course.
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Here they are after our party on the last night (Claire likes to come with me on the last night for the party).

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Peak, Aui, Pee, Peek, Nok, Stamp, and Pastor Noom toast the end of another class.
Tom's class at the hospital has also ended but it sounds like there may be other teaching opportunities there. He is currently holding off on taking on individual students, since he would prefer teaching groups.

We're looking forward to a team game night at our house tonight and a beach vacation next week!!
-Candice

March 04, 2008

Trip Part II: Bible study in the forest

One of my favorite parts of our recent trip to Isaan was having a chance to observe and interact with the Christians there. It was very encouraging to see their enthusiasm and the natural ways in which they worshiped, discipled, and evangelized. This is not a church that is run by foreigners or patterned after foreign methods - and that's a good thing!

They are continually taking the gospel into new territory and are seeing amazing results. We heard testimonies and stories of miraculous events that sounded like they could have been taken straight from the Bible. New believers are being quickly incorporated into the life of the church, given responsibilities, and taking it upon themselves to witness to and disciple their friends and family members. One of their key discipleship methods is small-group Bible study, and we were privileged to participate in one of those on the day before we returned to Bangkok.

We drove out to a very remote area - in a large forest where Thailand, Cambodia, and Laos meet. We had to squeeze the truck down a forest path, with bushes scraping both sides. There was no electricity and it was definitely the most rustic home we've visited. The Bible study was held at the house of Mae Sii Jan (roughly translated "Grandma Moon Glory") who has been a believer for about 4 months now. She is already participating on the worship team, since she already knows the traditional tunes on which their worship songs are based. She and her husband ("Grandpa Wild Ox") became Christians through an amazing series of events that I don't have time to describe here. We picked up another man along the way (the one who had shared in church on Sunday about his father coming back to life after he had been placed in the hospital morgue).

We sat on the floor with them, ate a meal, and then Pastor Joi and another church leader engaged in a simple Bible study with them (even explaining their take on Christian funeral practices to the man whose father had died - in the event that he dies again and this man has to work through funeral rites with his Buddhist family).

Each person had a workbook with simple questions about Old Testament stories (they were starting at the beginning) and the church leaders reviewed their answers and helped explain the stories to them. These were people who would have grown up without knowing anything about the Bible and it was exciting to see their diligence and the way in which they enjoyed learning.

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Pastor Joi (left) and Grandpa Wild Ox

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Mae Sii Jan - we were very impressed by her joy and her enthusiasm for praising the Lord in song.

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After the Bible study we were taken on a walking tour of the surrounding forest area and Mae Sii Jan collected red ant eggs using a basket at the end of a long pole.

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She dumped the eggs (and a bunch of angry ants) into this tray and poured flour on them. The idea is to get the ants to leave because they don't taste good (although one of the men was picking them off a tree and eating them while we walked in the woods - I think that he was just trying to impress us).

So, now we're back in the city - wondering and praying about when and how we will see God moving in similar ways here.

-Tom

March 02, 2008

Trip Part I: A Top Ten List

1. The always fun overnight train ride into North Eastern Thailand (also known as Isaan), including fun visits from our Reach friends from another train car.
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2. Our very kind hosts, Pastor Joi his wife Tong Sii and their three children. They extended incredible hospitality to us. Our family had fun sleeping all together on a mat under a mosquito net and eating all our meals with them on a mat on the floor.
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3. The amazing array of new Isaan foods to try, including bugs (mostly winged insects and beetles- very flavorful), heavy sticky rice cakes for breakfast, sour greens and mushrooms, sundried bananas, spicey green bean salad, etc. We also ate a lot more rice than we are used to- at every meal. One breakfast we had three types to chose from....sticky, fried, and plain.
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Eliza actually loved the bugs and kept handing them to Claire to pick off the wings and legs. Here she is with a whole assortment that we had at dinner one night.

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Getting the food ready for our meal after church .

4. The peace and quiet of the country-side. We almost forget what such complete silent is like, living near the city.

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One afternoon we enjoyed a swim in the river just down the road behind our host home. A bunch of kids went along with us. Here is Eliza with some of the boys.

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Pastor Joi owns about 700 rubber trees which enables him to support his family, while leaving him plenty of time for ministry. The rubber sap is collected by slicing away a thin layer of bark and runs out into a bucket (just like maple syrup). The grove was cool and beautiful (right behind the house).

5. Some different ways of doing things.....
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Washing dishes with Mae Sii Jan. She is a new believer who was also staying at Pastor Joi's home for a few days around the time of the church service. She was helping with worship and her home was too remote to travel back and forth. We later got a chance to visit her home (more about that later).

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The bathroom had a "squatty potty" (or non-western toilet as we've taught the girls to say :)) with a dipping system for flushing and on the far right a dipping shower. Once you got past the shock of the cold water, it was actually pretty fun (the girls thought so- it was funny seeing them trying not to squeal at the cold).

6. Highlights for the girls (especially Claire) were the river swimming and the animals......
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Claire taking a very brief ride/sit on a baby water buffalo. That's Lucille Zimmerman, an EMM worker, holding her on.

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Claire was super excited that our host family owned chicken and ducks and she loved helping feed them most days. Here she is holding a baby duck.

7. A fun day of learning with the Reachers and Skip and Carol Tobin (long term EMM workers) who did some teaching on Isaan culture. We also enjoyed a trip through the jungle across the Lao border and swimming in the river near their house.

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Skip and Carol sharing.

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Claire and Eliza in Laos, with their new hats. They also got small mortar and pestles and had fun making "somtam" (spicey papaya salad) the rest of the day.

8. Worshipping with the Thai believers. We had a big group meeting at Pastor Joi's house on Sunday morning. Normally the church meets in small home groups in their own villages and gather together once a month for a bigger celebration (the model we would like to adopt for our home groups here in Bangkok).

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The celebration included testimonies (even of miracles, like a man raised from the dead!), Isaan style music and dance, a Bible lesson, and a string tying ceremony welcoming a new believer and the Reachers (we had previously participated in the ceremony).

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The girls enjoyed Sunday school in the grove of rubber trees.

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They made lots of friends at church. Here collecting nuts from the ground.

9.A Monday trip deep into the forest for a Bible Study with a group of new believers. How incredible to witness God at work in such an incredibly remote place and to hear about the miracles he is performing. Tom will share more about this in Trip Part II- which will be just about that day (including pictures of harvesting red ant nests!).

10. God really blessed us through this trip- just all the neat cultural things we got to experience and the encouragement of being with Thai believers. PRAISE GOD for all he is doing and for all he wants to do here in the city too!

-Candice

March 01, 2008

Eliza's New Hairdo

Tom has been wanting to see Eliza with bangs, so today we went for her very first real haircut.

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My favorite hair stylist is A and this is her shop here in Thippawan. Eliza was impressed that she got a little head massage along with her two shampoos and conditioning. She was a little nervous and wanted me to hold her hand at first.

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She managed to hold mostly still for the cut. You should have seen her beaming at herself in the mirror afterwards!

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The end result. She did not want to ride a motorcycle home since she didn't want to "mess up her hair."

We're enjoying a quiet family weekend around here. Today we went to the English library and now Tom and the girls are busy playing legos.
I'm working on the trip blog but it's taking some time with 150 or so pictures to wade through! Coming soon....
Candice